I have to agree with all the previous comments. It sounds like you are being taken for granted and you do not deserve that from anyone......family or not. Only quilt what you want and steer away from the ungrateful. There are so many out there who would be thrilled to receive something hand made with love no matter the fabric, the design, color or "perfectness"of the stitching. Quilting should be fun.......so start concentrating on fun! You go, girl, and let us know what you decide. You have a "village" behind you!