LOL paperprincess. I got belly laugh out of that entry. I have a husband who loves to eat, and I hate to cook when I am in quilting mode.....
Lots of good advice here from every corner of the world. I am like most LA quilters too, in that I have one of everything quilting, and two or three of some things..... I have lots of friends (and sisters) who love my Gammill and are being allowed to learn how to quilt their own on it (with lots of supervision). I simply do not have the time to do all the quilting that needs to be done in my ever-widening circle of quilters. They come over with their "stuff" and we spend the day enjoying each other's company (one day is about what it takes to load and quilt a quilt, no matter the size); and I am not talking prize winning quilts here--I am speaking of quilts that will be put on someone's bed and enjoyed for years and years to come.
My suggestion might be, print off this posting and take it with you when you next visit with her, and ask her what catches her fancy. Good luck, and keep us posted on what you do. We read our forum just about every day when we are having our morning coffee.