Have a Bernina 440QE and LOVE IT! I am beginning to learn to FMQ, something I never would have dreamed of attempting without the BSR. Also got the embroidery module a month later (got a great deal as I had just purchased my 440). Didn't think I would do a lot of embroidery, but I am now hooked on that too! Got my 440 used (about 5 years old) with the remainder of the 20 or 25 year warranty.
Congrats on your new baby! You did the right thing by thoroughly trying out each machine. As the others said, you have to get the one that feels right to you.
Merry Christmas!