I have an independent shipping store (like a UPS store). I would send it UPS ground. You have a tracking #, a confirmed delivery date and, if needed, you can have a return label printed out, paid for and enclosed in the box. If something happened (god forbid) to the quilt, you have the ability to file a claim. I have had this business for 26 years and I am amazed at the very few claims I have put in for lost packages. Also, lay a large bag on the bottom of the box to keep any moisture from soaking into the cardboard. I do not put fabric items inside plastic because they can't breath, just line the box. The other thing is to either go to an independent store or do it online. If you go to a large chain, you will pay up to 100% markup on the shipping charge. (Fed-x ground works the same way and also has the automatic $100 insurance). I am so sorry your quilt was lost.