Thank you everyone for the compliments and condolances(sp?). When I was in the middle of the problems of the quilt, I said to my brother that if she said something negative about it, I was going to say something I shouldn't. And he said well I can't promise she won't! But after it was finished, I felt better about it. And then after the trials and mishaps, I just expected it. Part of the reason I was so upset about the quilt is because I wanted it to be twin size so it would fit her bed. Now it is a bedspread. I did talk to her about it, but who knows if she'll use it or not.
As for all the other stuff that happened, we have temporarily fixed the roof until our contracter can get to it, we found a new truck to replace the crushed one, the new water heater is awesome and my MIL affairs are being handled. So many people were praying for us, God worked it all out. We just need to sell her house and we're good.