You can adopt me as your "mom" any time... I love your quilt! Also, I am sorry you have had so much on your shoulders. My philosophy is that it just must be your turn. I went thru a decade of not so nice stuff, but it does pass... finally. Take care of YOU, and keep quilting... it's obvious you have a talent, and I can tell you, it makes all the bad stuff go away for a little while...