When I give one of my quilts away as a gift to family or friends, I also give up the right to tell them what to do with it. If I gave a purchased gift that didn't fit or was the wrong color, I wouldn't expect them to keep it just because I took the time to shop for them. Maybe I'm just weird that way. Besides, I'd rather have someone get some use out of my quilts than have them just taking up shelf space forever.