I have to agree with bearisgray on this. Christmas and any other holiday is so commerialized anymore, it's all about how much money they can get people to spend, instead of the real reason for that particular holiday. We think that Christmas is for kids, but even then they don't get everything they want. Give to a charity of your choice or to the person you're "gifting", then send that person a card stating that you gave x amount of money, food, etc., to the charity in their name.