Each bag is great. Love them all. My absolute favorite is the blue silky one. Sorry to hear your husband is not feeling well. I just went through a long illness myself, for me the real problems came after I was healed physically. I hope that he's keeping in contact with the outside world as much as possible. I wasn't able to and some where along the way I lost myself. Having trouble sorting out my emotions. I would highly recommend palliative care. Despite what some people think, it's not for those who are dying. It's for anyone who's undergone a serious lengthy illness. My counselor is really helpful. Prayers for your husband and for you.