I often find myself thinking about what I would do if something happened to my DH, lately. I guess it's just natural at our age. I couldn't manage our home on my own. I LOVE living out like we do, in the boonies on 24 acres in upstate NY. But I couldn't do the maintenance, the winter upkeep, etc. Many of his family are nearby, and I love them all, but my family are all in California, and I really don't want to live there. Much to overpopulated now, in what used to be rural when we grew up in that area.
I like being fairly solitary so don't think I would like senior apartments, but I'm not entirely antisocial. LOL
Perhaps, a mobile home park would work for me. My children are in Ohio, PA and Seattle, WA. None of those places appeal to me weather-wise. I'd love to live on the east coast, as I love the ocean, perhaps the Carolinas, but who can afford to live there on disability and SSI. LOL, it's quite a dilemma when you really spend some time thinking about it.
I better take good care of DH so he is with me a very long time!