Oh your post sparked my interest.. I have been with my husband ( & love of my life) for over 17yrs, we have been married for 12,. We have recently seperated ( for 5mos ) after another woman has interfered with our lives. Of course he is to blame too, but she is a force of the devil for sure. Im heartbroken and we are talking again, we have not filed for divorce as yet. And my love for him is still here, but cant deal with her . Is it even possible to be together again and happy>? He says its what he wants & I would love nothing more, but scared.