Originally Posted by francie yuhas

I have found a way to " motivate" my DH for projects. ; I just start by doing it myself. This requires asking him many questions( often interrupting whatever he's doing), " borrowing " his tools, and usually doing a less than quality job,due to my inexperience. I just get on a google site and print off a set of instructions,plead total ignorance to an experienced- looking hardware salesman...etc. Good Luck.