Mmmmm neither hahahahaha but the oldest far left is attending with me, the other one is back up at school. The shower is for a lovely girl that we have known her whole life we were neighbors for about 8 years in a tiny condo complex. With kids pretty much identical in age her mom and I shared a lot of child care trading off and on and taking ours and the neighbor kids pretty much everywhere together. I think of her as one of my kids and my girls think of her mom as a 2nd mom.
Eeek slightly off topic I'll go read my email now.