Hi Patchwork Pam - Sorry to hear about your nightmare. I just had to offer you some words of encouragement. I'm a divorce attorney here in CA and I work with women and men going through exactly what you are every single day!!!!!!!!!! It can be such a nightmare for some people, and I'm sorry to hear that one of my fellow quilters is experiencing such a hard time.
I wish you nothing but the best...lots of strength and perseverance.