Kinda sick.....is it totally ruined?
Thank all of you for your suggestions. The top didn't ravel and it was finished. I use a smaller stitch setting (1.8) which may have saved me. I also used the gentle cycle which doesn't agitate much. I do have a top load machine- oldie but goodie and it does have an extra large setting. The top does look wrinkled and I don't like that look.. I will have someone do it on a longarm machine. Will that set in the wrinkles if it's not ironed first? I had hoped to be able to iron it before I sent it.. I apologize for my stupid questions. I only had one top quilted before, so I don't know much. I think I have a pic attached of the top before it was washed.