We have been married 16 months.....his wife died after 35 years,and this is my third round (takes me a long time to get things right).....but I have NEVER known such true, total, complete and unconditional love....this man is a saint for loving and supporting me through so much!! I had a fiance` who was the only person in my life who had ever given me total unconditional love, and he died of a sudden heart attack the Christmas before we were to be married. I believed that I had lost the only true love I would have here on earth. But God is sooooo Good....He brought me a Godly man. He is not someone I would have chosen on my own, because we come from such opposite backgrounds! But this man had wounds that most of us are blest not to suffer (a child murdered) and God has used our pain to love beyond any love I could have ever imagined of receiving and giving as well! Because of him and God, and can honestly say, there is nothing closer to heaven than marriage! Let go and Let God!