Texasannie,
Sounds like you have been through a lot. I am glad that a wonderful story like this came along to help you out of your troubles. There are great people out there, loving, caring and giving. I know this from personal experience...and I know that you and your hubby are that kind of folks too, from hearing what you have been through..all for the love of your GD. Please try to remember that you have given all you can give and that you would be continuing to do so if outside forces had not acted to stop you. Don't give up on your young GD, one of these days she will realize what true love is and when she does, she will need you even more.
God Bless.