LMBO I remember the twin days :D:D:D Mine are 6 and with me right now...
I would not wait on your SIL he needs to figure this out right from the start, juggling a baby while fixing a bottle, running for the wipes, etc... DD needs a couple more days to heal and then she too needs to learn this. I told my DD and SIL that I was here to help, not wait on them :wink:
The sooner the parents get into a rhythm the better and easier it will be on both mom and dad. The babies will get sick, usually about the same time, it's a twin thing where other siblings can have a 2-3 day differece in it hitting them. So the more you can help them deal with them thinking team work, the better :D:D:D
Wait til they are both sick and you get the simultaneous vomitting LMBO I can laugh, cause I have been there and done that when I had them by myself :D:D:D
When the time comes for them to actually start doing all of the things they are talking about...reality will set in and they will be changing their minds :lol::lol::lol: Until then, they will be dreaming large :D:D:D