i have done one as a wall quilt and one as a candle mat. i have washed the candle mat and it is much softer. maybe the battilizer softens with washing. it is still not what i would make for a cuddly children's quilt but i would use it for a decorative over the couch throw after it has been washed.
i used 40 weight rayon thread and can't see needle holes on mine.