Sounds so familiar. My guild asked me to do the program and publicity for the quilt show. I told them no, and told them no, and they kept saying, "Oh, we'll give you lots of help." Of course, the help was minimal, and I was not the person for the job, just as I told them. The project lasted for months, up until the quilt show, with the people in charge acting very put out with me as I repeatedly reported my lack of progress, due to several things, one of which was my daughter having a baby. It ended up with lots of hard feelings, and I never again felt comfortable going to that guild's meetings. I have moved to another town now, but don't really want to join a guild here. I never felt guilty about it, because I had been honest with the people. I just feel sad that it all happened. I, too, should have said no and stuck to my guns.