I do a lot for my guild but know when to say no to guild or anyone. I say I don't want to do that and I don't offer any reason or excuse why. That stops all pleading or urging on. I do not like the guild to ask for free stuff for fundraisers. I voiced my opinion about that too. Since I have said I don't like it many more have spoken up too. Now we fund our own fundraisers and do get some donations but we don't ask for them. If a person can't afford to help fund the guild at times with time or money, then really why be a member and let others do it all.