That article was what I needed. Our retirement home is a manufactured home...double wide mobile...as most people would call it. I don't entertain as it's not a stick built home. But it is totally paid for and we share 10 acres with my mom. I need to see this place as a blessing not as "not good enough" for entertaining. Thanks for helping adjust my attitude. If people don't like me because I don't live in a grand home...they wouldn't be the kind of friends I'd want, anyway. Now to go clean it...and every time I do, I'm so glad it's not bigger!!