I am an introvert. As such, I work my ideas over and over in my head until I'm happy with them, then I start. This is my way with everything--writing, cooking, quilting.... when I'm done, and I put it out there for others to read, eat, look at, etc., I know that I have done it my way, and that pleases me. It took a long time, but I'm now comfortable with this. My advice is to trust yourself. Comparisons are never accurate because no one else is you.