May I share a thought from the other side of the dilemna? I steer clear of work gift giving unless it's a big plate of cookies, cake etc for all to share. One coworker felt the way you do and started making very nice necklaces for all of us. This set up (what some felt) to be an obligation to gift back. I avoided it because frankly I don't have the time, energy or interest to make/buy gifts for coworkers. They're nice to work with but my limited resources need to go elsewhere. However, others felt pressured into making/buying her a gift but also others. What started out as a sweet idea spiraled into grumbling & not so sweet comments from others who felt pressured.