Wow, this topic really did hit a nerve! I have used the same approach as some of you. I'll let them know that if they want a quilt, I'll be happy to go shopping with them, then they can come over on Wednesday nights (I have two sewing machines set up in my sewing room...) and I will help them make it, meaning, I will show them what to do, maybe help pin and press, while I am working on my own project. One or two of my sisters have taken me up on the offer, even a niece. Ü For acquaintances, I suggest that they join our local quilt guild.