Originally Posted by
Sarabela
. I think you should use your own ideas, make it your own even if it's not as beautiful in your eyes as your sister's design. At least it will be yours and yours alone and your sense of accomplishment will be much greater. In the end you may decide you like what you did better than you expected!
Thankyou Sarabela. That may well be the way forward. If I use my sister's idea, I dont think i'll feel much sense of accomplishment. The question now is whether I can rediscover the joy and excitement I felt previously about this project. It's gone sour now - all mixed up with feelings of inadequacy.