Thanks Rodney for putting this out there for more of us to see it. I must have missed any post about Miriam's daughter-in-law. Miriam has been very kind to me in the past and I will be sending you a 9 patch also. Funny thing is I live in Fort Myers and have a daughter in Indy...Miriam lives in Indy and has a son here my my area..anyway my patch will come cross country to you and then back for Ashleah...my husband is a "brain-stem" stroke survivor, so my prayers go out to them...although this happens to one of our dear loved ones, it affects the whole family in the long run. She sounds like she will do her best to get back her "sunshine". Blessings to all who jump in on this .