This is such a tragic incident. I had chills run thru my body when I read the news right after it happened. I did some deeper research and it appears Pam had cancer (unless what was posted was wrong). It was her picture, age and all, so felt it was true. I'm wondering if it was so bad that maybe the hubby didn't want to go on if something happened to her and they decided this would be the way to go. Don't quite understand why he had to kill The Dude tho, so very sad. There's no way of knowing what was going on in their minds unless one of the family knows and will let us know eventually. The living are the ones to suffer now, do those that do suicide ever think of what it does to the remaining folks - I don't believe they do. I hope they are at peace now, and the family will heal quickly. Prayers to all of them.