Sorry to hear about your father. It is hard deciding what to do exactly, but I'm sure you will make the right choices. My dad did not like being told he could not go home but some times we do what we have to do. I probably will be the same way when they tell me no more living by myself. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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letsquilt
Barbara thank you for my prize it is very pretty,Thank you.
I left last Thursday to go to Florida for a week with friends we drove 6.5 hours and Friday morning got a call from sister in missouri tat my father had taken a turn for the worst and we thought we were going to loose him,so called my Dear Husband he drove 1/2 way to meet my friends and me,then we turned around and drove 15 hours to the hospital where my Dad is and he's sitting up in bed doing better,but still very very ill.He is 81 lives alone so now he can be alone any more so tomorrow we have to tell him with the Doctor that he can't go home he has to go into Nursing home.
He will not like it but he has to have 24 hour care,He is on Oxygen all the time,now his Kidneys are failing building up to much fluid and his Heart is to weak,so as the Doc put it his Heart and Kidneys are fighting with each other.
Sorry for such a long post,just needed to vent.