Sorry to hear about the mishap - yes sometimes unfortunate accidents happen.
For a masculine quilt I like some of the modern patterns and depending on the fabrics you can achieve a timeless sophisticated look for many different age groups. Here are a few patterns that would go together quickly and might be what you like:
https://www.missouriquiltco.com/shop...-quilt-pattern
http://www.jaybirdquilts.com/2012/04...t-pattern.html
http://www.hancocks-paducah.com/PATT...any-Creations-
http://www.hancocks-paducah.com/PATT...erns/CQD-01072
- this book has many patterns - look through those that are offered - something might catch your eye
http://www.shopmartingale.com/the-bi...patchwork.html
Good Luck