We quit doing gifts years ago...except for the kids, of course. Adults can go out to buy their own stuff. Why torture yourself UNLESS that is your "joy". I would give from the heart BUT i also do not expect a return gift. I, frankly, enjoy the holidays much more, thanks to simplifying the celebration. Great food, the company of family and friends and participating in the worship services, which is the "reason for the season". I no longer identify with the mass histeria of shopping, mall hours, the rush, etc. Heck, i barely mail cards anymore since Facebook! Lol!
i DO. Like to walk the malls to enjoy the decorations and window shop the merchandise . I does get me in the spirit of shopping but I don't stand in the lines or shop the crazy hours. Too many years working in retail cures that propaganda! No credit card balances that suck the joy out of the holidays in months to come, either.
Yep, i am currently enjoying poking the Christmas aisles.
sandy