Gifts...I used to but it was one gift purchase, then I would find something I really wanted too....on and on.......I would be asked by kids what I wanted...nothing, I can buy it myself...my thinking there is if I have to tell you what to buy me...forget it....enough cynicism, my solution is all get gift cards...GDs..stores they shop in, DDs restaurant gift cards... The only gifts are to 3GGs....there I will go crazy!! A blessing to see them.......I have told DDs for me gift cards to places I shop for quilting stuff, if they want to....but really to see all their faces on Christmas Day is gift enough for me...and a prayer for their dad who is celebrating the Birthday with the One.