Originally Posted by
tenngal
Our family has increased quite a bit - 17 kids, grandkids, wives, husbands, and now 3 great grandchildren. They all make more money than we do. We've always bought all the food and done all the cooking, plus cash gifts or gift cards for adults & teens and presents for the little ones. I am worn out due to a sick husband and would like to STOP - except for the little ones. Can't get anyone else to agree, though. And, we sure don't need any gifts.
Well of COURSE they won't agree! They've got it made, with you doing all the work!
Just announce that you're planning to simplify this Christmas and will be making charitable donations, in lieu of gifts for all but the little ones (IF you want to still include them). At the same time, announce that someone else will have to be responsible for Christmas dinner. Then don't let anyone make you change your mind!