send them what we did. forget the time you put into it just send it to them. let them send us their fabric back first yes but they can have their blocks. life happens to people. I have been hospitalized three times this year. I get it. really I do. priorities, life, whatever the excuse it happens. To EVERYONE. if we get our fabric back its a big bonus. in any swap this is the troubles you face. and expect. sadly. so send them their fabric blocks get our fabric back and its a win still. I see blocking non compliants without a great excuse as a good alternative. future swaps they can sit out its ok. maybe the extra time helps them complete other things they might be behind on too.