Pam, I've written and erased 3 different responses to your UFO/WIP question. I've decided the best way to respond is just make some pushy suggestions.
1. Separate all your UFOs/WIPs.
2. Put each one in its own container (of some sort????), preferably containers that you can stack on top of each other or in one of those plastic multi-drawer units.
3. Make sure you include notes detailing any ideas/brainwaves or plans that you have for that project. Include backing fabric if you have it and anything else that you might need to finish that project.
4. Prioritize! Name or number each one and have a corresponding list to keep (for example) on a bulletin board.
5. Then work on 1 or 2 (I do 2 at a time ... one upstairs and one downstairs) and, Pam, don't even think about the others! They need to be virtually out-of-sight and out-of-mind.
6. Don't start a new one unless some important quilty need arises, like a new baby or a sick person.
THE END! (No charge for the advice!)