Tricia.....i feel so bad for you.....wish there was something i could do to help - but unfortunately we're about as far away from each other north to south as you can get and not be outside the USA. Please take care - and you can PM me any time if you just want to vent.
On the bright side....we have another several weeks of FUN FUN FUN together here on the SS thread.... IF Neesie and ArizonaKat and several OTHERS (i'm just sayin') stay out of trouble that is !!!