It's hard to let others do for you, but let them. Two years ago this Thanksgiving day I got to come home from a second knee surgery. My daughter and SIL had the turkey and all the trimmings ready for me to come home. They told the doctor he better hurry and release me or the turkey would burn!! I could only get up to go to the bathroom, but I could sure shoot orders. Everything went fine! It was the best Thanksgiving ever.They fixed my plate and I was in my recliner. It was awesome. My neighbor told me to suck it up and I did. So your son's friend will do just fine. If not, tell them to find a KFC.
We love you, Linda, angels are with you. I pray for you daily.
Ellie