Brat,
You take care of YOU! I'm happy to coordinate with Jaba and help any way I can. Right now our mug rugs are the last thing you need to worry about. I've pm'd with Jaba some, and I will pm her again, so she knows I'll help out. I may be a kajillion miles away, but the internet shortens the miles..
I also agree you're a "tough cookie" and if anyone bounces back, it'll be you, my quilty friend!!
You know where to find me, and I'm sending you some gentle healing hugs,
Kif
PS paper plates and plastic silverware make dishes easy to trash, er clean... my friend.