I'm thrilled with this thread. One question, though. What exactly is "too heavy"? DH and I have had the too heavy conversation. Because I do not feel the sensation, I cannot really understand. Is too heavy a pain somewhere? Does it mean one cannot turn over easily? Is it something that aggravates a bad back? What is it? It seems it would help us to have a clearer idea of what is being meant so we can respond appropriately.
For me, bring on the heavy, snuggly, cozy, just like Gram who lived two blocks off Lake Michigan on the Wisconsin side made them quilts. Now how many can we get on the bed?
Pat