For great tips, put a post in the main section asking! Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me add disclaimers: Don't give an exact address, for yourself or for her and don't give dates you are traveling.
But if you start a thread - something like, "Looking for Quilt Shops in Finger Lakes," or "Quilt shops north of Philadelphia," I can give you some info... So change it to be for the area you are looking for. Also - if you are traveling by car and have time for stopping along the way, post "Quilt shops near Route 81 between Syracuse and Philadelphia."
You'll get more complete information than any online or printed list - plus personal reviews!