Oh Brat, I wish I could do more to help you!
I have a "loopy" (what I call my Lupus brain) brain and problems recalling things quite often myself...I can only imagine the "fun" you're having...And right now you truly don't need anymore "fun".
Now I know as a hostess, good...bad...indifferent comes with the territory. But I also would never have imagined there would be so many people still waiting on their pkgs. Not good for them, and not good for our hostess.
Regards all,
Kif