GrammyJ, prayers to you and your family. My mother lost Dad just after the new year. I know what you are going thru, they had 58 years. Just take time, grieve and don't make any major decisions until you heal a bit. This will be our first Christmas with out him.
Nessie, I'll have some wine with you, would you like a little fruit cake? I made some this year, I think it is ready to taste.