GOOD! you know... remember as you learn it will get easier and your work will look better, be patient with yourself.
and dont worry about the wash/dont wash thing right now, I think when your learning there is no right/wrong way to wash/dont wash just sew your quilt and enjoy every minute :)
if you do decide to wash, do you have a zippered bag for delicates? it would help when dealing with those small pieces you have.