I always hated the running around. the feeling of must having to see someone.cSince I married my 2nd husbnd, he's Jewish, I now have an excuse to stay home. We do our own thing, no running around, just quiet peacefulness. My son sleeps over the night b4, I make French toast and if he can, he makes it back for dinner. No rush or feeling guilty over not seeing someone. it's so much easier. I think to many people put to much pressure on what it's supposed to be. Everyone have a wonderful day if you're celebrating Christmas or Hanukkah or Ramadan. enjoy it.