I would have to take all the fabric, patterns, books, rulers, cutting mats, pins, scissors, etc home with me. You will be surprised how much it costs to replace these type of items and eventually you may need some or all of them. Tables for cutting and sewing on will be nice. If she has a design board, make sure you get that.
I wish I could recommend a book, but can't. I tend to do individual patterns. Take your time with deciding what to keep, because you will probably want most of it. Even ugly fabric, cut into small enough pieces can end up being the life of a quilt. You just never know.