It appears they want the sports team quilt - not sure why they want "girly." My first born was a girl and we are big sports fans (Chargers, Padres and Aztecs) Luckily she came out with the same interests and she was dressed in the little outfits and the quilts that are not feminine. We don't look at the sports items as belonging to the male interest only.
Hope they tell you what they really want.