WOW. While asking for a baby quilt for baby #2 is not unreasonable, asking for one for her little boy wouldn't be so bad, however, why would you make all her other requests? I know she's your sister, and while you love her, she's expecting far too much from you. I know you want to please your sister, but only do what YOU feel you can and definitely do something simple and easy, especially for the little boy who might just drag it around with him, play with it, and to me that's what I make when I make a baby quilt - I'm not making an heirloom just something to cuddle and use. Does your sister even realize that she's making an unreasonable request of you? Just do what you feel is right for you.