I so agree with you. I say thanks for thinking of me and just get rid of what I don't want/can't use. Any OK fabric gets donated if I don't want it, scraps go to my guild for dog beds and some actually gets trashed (took me a long time to be able to throw out fabric!). I have started doing this with all sorts of things that are gifted to me, not just fabric. People mean well but they give you all sorts of stuff that isn't your taste or you can't use and if I kept it all I would be drowning in STUFF. My college-age children don't understand this but I've told them you get to a point in your life where you realize that you just don't need so many possessions and it's better that I get rid of it now than that they have to sort through it after I'm gone.