We don't have any set by-laws that I know of I'll check though. We're very casual and to me, not very organized. The secretary and treasurer agree with me and I know there are some members who also agree. Like I said, we're a very small group, less than 12 active members at any given time. I don't think it was a sense of obligation either. She's done the same thing with her church. They didn't put her on a committee for the new year because of her attendance record, she complained and told them she wanted to be on the committee and they put her on it. She's also whined to her church that she needed a new bed and they bought it for her, now she doesn't even bother to attend services. Sounds like a pattern to me. Do you think it would be proper for us (me, the treasurer & secretary) to bring it up at the next meeting if she's not there? I'd hate to do it if she was there.