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Old 03-03-2015, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Heather Elaine
I'm sick of cooking, having to come up with something different every dang day... Daughter-single, 29 and lives in her own house down the road but still eats dinner with us. I want to know what the empty nest feeling is like? I know I'm retired and they think I have all day to do supper but all I want to do is sit at my sewing machine, work on my design wall with scrapes of fabric and quilt. I'm FAT and don't want to eat a meal every night...Husband thinks if it's not meat, taters and veg. with cornbread it's not a meal. Just wondering how I did it when I was working graveyard for 20 years. Oh I know; I didn't sew and sleep all day while he was at work and she was in school. Guess ya'll realized this has hit a nerve I didn't realize I had hidden in the back of my mind...God help them when they get home tonight. May have a "Come To Jesus Meeting" with them about this issue. I need at least two nights off a week from doing supper. Thanks for letting me vent, what friends are for!
You go girl!!!

I'm very, very, very lucky. When DH retired, he took over cooking our meals!

I still do The Biggies like Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter and we work together whenever we have a dinner party.

Heather Elaine: your DD needs to learn how to cook and take care of herself. Under the guise of "teaching her how to cook" have her practice cooking at least every other night.

As for your DH, maybe he needs to learn to cook as well. If you can afford it, make plans to go away to one of the four day quilt shows and leave them on their own. I guarantee they won't starve while you are gone, and ~I hope~ will appreciate you all the more when you get home.

Lastly, VENT ALL YOU WANT: we're here for you.
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